A lot of people understand Pathankot more clearly after leaving it.
The city does not always brand itself loudly while you are inside it.
Only later do you notice the habits it formed: alertness, flexibility, warmth on short notice, and a strange comfort with movement.
You realize it raised you on roads without making you rootless.
That is a skill.
Distance often reveals how much of your tone and timing still belongs there.
Pathankot may be a gateway, but it does not send people out empty.
Tell us what Pathankot gave you that only distance made visible.